43 Replies to “The Secret to Intimacy | The Science of Love”

  1. I first know about soulpancake is through the their video ” how to connect
    with anyone ” and then I start to view videos of soulpancake. To be honest,
    i have tear drops in almost every the science of love series video. Me and
    my other half were in a long distance relationship, and I am very insecure
    about our relationship but we both know we deeply fall in love with each
    other, which is a blessed things. We have been together 20 months now… we
    only have the chances to see each other when the school is on and we break
    apart during semester break… we booth cry together when we know we are
    not able to see each other faces in the next morning, it is a hard time to
    deal with after graduation which will happen on the coming May and which
    made it worst is her birthday fall on May 31 and by that time she might be
    back to her hometown. But now I saw all these videos and it makes me happy
    and feel positive about our relationship, I can’t wait to watch again with
    her company next time 🙂 thanks soulpancake for these awesome videos,
    subscribed. 

  2. “You can’t get anywhere if you don’t take risks…”
    Oh boy, how this is frustratingly NOT true. Some people can coast through
    life with mommy and daddy’s wallet or get through with being born with
    attractive features. Maybe it’s just American society, I don’t know, but
    the aforementioned people have ego issues that they defend by claiming it’s
    their “confidence” and that they should be rewarded for it. They then have
    their filthy rich parents blow money on tuition, then get to have sex with
    nearly anyone on campus since the parents were able to buy beauty products
    or weight lifting equipment to make them a walking sex magnet. A more
    accurate statement from Mr. Pancake would’ve been: “A decent person can’t
    get anywhere if they don’t take risks” because let’s face it, the people I
    previously described aren’t decent people.

  3. I have recently learned about SoulPancake, and I have been watching
    numerous videos a day, and they instantly shift my mindset into one of
    positivity. I absolutely love these videos. Thank you for creating
    soulPancake and for putting these videos together. <3

  4. I wish I could take part in any of them talk shows. But I am far away in
    the UK.. All of their videos are so, so interesting! 

  5. Girl- Do you think I’m pretty?
    Boy- NO
    Girl- Do you want to be with me forever?
    Boy- NO
    Girl- Do you even like me?
    Boy- NO
    Girl- Would you cry if I walked away?
    Boy- NO
    she heard enough and walked away
    he grabbed her arm
    Boy- Your not pretty…. your beautiful
    I don’t want to be with you forever……. I need to be with you forever
    I don’t like you….. I love you
    I wouldn’t cry if you walked away… I would die if you walked away
    Boy- Please stay with me
    Girl- I will
    tonight at midnight your true love will realise he loves you
    something good will happen to you @ 1-4 p.m.
    tomorrow it could be anywhere!!!!!
    get ready for the shock of your life!
    If you don’t post this on 5 other comments.. you will have bad luck in love
    for the next 10 years…

  6. This one actually made me cry, the couples were so in love and positive and
    romantic each in their own way…. AHHH IM SUCH A SOFTIE

  7. It would be very helpful if you wrote down these interview questions, so
    that we can practice vulnerability.

  8. I freaking love this ! it always makes me tear up, and yes, i’m a manly man
    … although i’m not really sure about the manly part … 

  9. Awwww… Cute, but video glosses over the real science of relationships.
    It has far more to do with similarities and complimentary differences than
    the love triangle. If you’re genetically attractive you will have a far
    wider range of possible mates than if you are unattractive, for instance.
    In the west we’ve been loaded up with BS like this video that our
    expectations and understanding of relationships have become distorted. The
    high divorce rates and children born out of wedlock are some key alerts
    that something is going wrong.

  10. True love is being handed to us *in each and every moment*. It’s that
    feeling you get when your mind opens up, when you see the true beauty in
    life. *Learn the truth.*

    Google, *Truth Contest* and then open the top entry, The Present

  11. I think all this science of love video is applicable in real life, if both
    participant are willing to stay engaged. Given either one of the couple
    choose to give up, it is practically over. relationship need work.

  12. Checkout the romance room app on google playstore download now get tips on
    how to be romantic and spontaneous every day thank you

  13. You always have to love when sweet videos like these get such negativity.
    Of course it isn’t the whole equation, why do you think this is an ongoing
    series and not just a single video. There are so many things that go into
    making a relationship work, but this is sorta the holy trinity of romantic
    relationships. 

  14. Oh my gosh! I love this channel! Each video makes me think on how to
    improve my relationship with my husband <3

  15. “What strength’s do you bring to our relationship?”
    My answer to the question:
    Everything.
    Why?
    Well, I can answer that question, but try and find see if you can.

  16. These videos are great, but sometimes relationships are broken. Theres
    nothing wrong with that and a lot to learn from it. I bet this is going to
    get people to hold on to something that is potentially toxic. 

  17. I like to say that love is the result of a good relationship, because love
    is just about a chemical reaction in our brain. and relationship is bulit
    with 5 principles: commitment, trust, communication, compromise, and
    intimacy. .-.

  18. Today I opened up to a new woman in my life, she makes me so happy and
    actually feel good about life and the future, that I had to let her in. It
    turns out she feels the same about me as I do for her and I owe it all to
    opening up and showing vulnerability to someone I barely know. Who knows
    what would have happened if I hadn’t said anything? All I know is I’m with
    the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen and she’s all mine 🙂 I love you
    soulpancake, you make our days better without even knowing how you truly
    influence our lives. Thank you all involved :)

  19. These are the questions:

    What strengths do I bring to our relationship?

    Describe the first moment you knew I was it for you.

    When was the time in our lives when you think our relationship needed more
    attention?

    How satisfied are you with the amount of time we spent together?

    What is one way we can be a better couple?

    What are you most scared about our future?

    What is something we used to do that you miss now?

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