28 Replies to “Dating Techniques – Science of Attraction”

  1. A girl Minna just asked me out on a date – I feel like it might be a good
    opportunity to get back up on my feet again – how should one behave on the
    first date? 

  2. I say, “fuck confidence!” I rather just be my stupid self than to
    constantly struggle to prove my worth to someone.

  3. Then when Arul, which is the Indian lady, is told it was all a test, her
    reply now is that she feels cheated and manipulated by the sleazy guy, and
    then uses hindsight (which is 20/20 as they say) to compliment the first
    guy. This tells me that she has very little life experience and may have
    been sheltered by her family. Thank God it was just a test, because had it
    been the real thing, she could have been just another female to have been
    used by the sleazy type of guy just for her body, thus possibly altering
    her mindset and outlook on life in the negative; worse, the guy could have
    ended up being a criminal and she abused by him as a result.

    Then she says “you want them to be themselves anyway” with the other 2
    women agreeing. If that is the case why did Katherine and Arul herself,
    after realizing it was a test, choose the first guy who was using body
    language to get the women? He was not being himself but merely using a
    tool to get the girl. Which means he does not actually and neither
    naturally behave in such a manner. Therefore, if this was real,
    his intentions can come into question and he be seen as not
    trustworthy. The only woman that actually made sense was Sarah, the woman
    who picked guy number 2, which is the guy who was being himself. This
    leads me to believe, after deducing these factors, that being yourself it
    the most sensible thing to be when talking to women. If you are a
    gentlemen, and a woman still rejects, it is probably a benefit to you as
    she may be the wrong type of woman anyway who is into the wrong type of
    guy. 

  4. Although some attraction is indeed natural. Having confidence, personality,
    and charisma can win over many women. At least that’s what I talk about

  5. I think I’ve figured out the way to be to get a cute girl. I have to force
    myself to not give a fuck!! That is the key. If you truly don’t give a fuck
    no matter how hot the girl is, she will find you attractive. You have to
    feel it deep down though. The other thing is not to be too honest and not
    answer all of her “weeding out” questions. Fuck her, don’t get weeded out.
    Women are generally mean spirited bitches and it gets worse as they get
    older, so you have to match that bitchiness by not giving a fuck and moving
    on if she turns you down, but she will pick up that “you don’t give a fuck”
    attitude so you will get turned down a lot less.

  6. I would go with the average nice guy (no homo).

    Would husband (no homo).

    By they way, I think the law of attraction is at work; the girl that liked
    the average nice guy is probably a nice person. The girl that liked the
    sleazy douchebag is probably a bi… 

  7. I actually think it also depends on the culture. If this was in America,
    the last guy would have won just like the nice guy would finish last.
    That’s how shallow and dumb American bitches are

  8. I can tell that dating C is definetly out of the game cuz he is trying to
    work too hard. I say just be yourself and act confident no matter if u run
    out of things to say :)

  9. Advice to Men: If you’re dating a single mother, and you have no kids of
    your own, you’re a fucking sucker. Unless she’s supporting you financially
    WHILST treating you well, there’s no reason to be dating a single mother.

    I go to these dating websites and I see single mothers looking to date men.
    So you had your sexual fun with another guy, gave him oral, provided him
    with doggy style so he can pop one in your womb, now all of a sudden you
    want to be with and settle down with a guy like me?

    Where the hell were you when your body was perfect and tight? Where were
    you when you didn’t have stretch marks? Where were you when your pussy
    wasn’t stretched out? Where were you when you had your youth? You let
    another guy have fun with you and your body and now you want to settle down
    with me and give me the fucking leftovers? No fucking way in hell.

  10. Men are not the problem, women are… now I know that makes women mad, and
    the supposed real men mad, but a true real man does not want or need to be
    the way we used to be along time ago in order to attract women, we want and
    need to be more intelligent, eco-friendly, loving, caring and solve the
    world’s problems, we don’t want to play games all day long to attract a
    woman’s attention and keep it. Women need to understand that, or they will
    continue to hurt men the way they have been for so long, and be unhappy
    themselves. And I know that women find it difficult to be attracted to a
    more evolved male species, and they are taught attraction is not a choice,
    and they may even say that they really don’t know what qualities attract
    them to a man… so what this means is they need reprogram their thinking
    so that they’re attracted to a more evolved male species, because then they
    will have real happiness, love, excitement, and at the same time they’re
    also doing what’s best for the environment. :~) <3

  11. I knew confidence had nothing to do with it and it required some type of
    special dating skills to get women.

  12. As usual, black people “diversifying” an already diverse white society with
    its variation in hair, eye and skin tones. I feel sorry for ginger people
    watching this and seeing their racial identity excluded in the name of
    black “diversity”. Other than that, the program was interesting.

  13. Come on, what the hell. This is called science of attraction, but none of
    the experiment protocols are used. It would be infinitely more interesting
    if it was an actual experiment with a more decent sample, some analysis of
    variance and then show us just the highlights of the experiment, with a
    link to the full research.
    This video has no more value than an article from Cosmopolitan.

  14. 8:43 It doesn’t matter what those two chose, Mr. C won out completely when
    that woman chose him, the other two bitches were completely unattractive.

  15. Here are my questions…This was done in England. Doesn’t the differences
    among cultures (ethnically wise) somewhat change the dynamics of such
    “rules of attraction”? In other words, what works for men in England may
    not necessarily work for men in the United States. If you study
    anthropology you will see that what means one thing in one culture may mean
    something entirely different in another.

    Second question, which is more so a comment. I would think that the first
    guy has the looks that most women like. The dude is slim, and has sharp
    features. The second guy is a bit overweight, while the third guy also
    looks less in shape and has what some would refer to as a pudgy face. In
    other words, it seems like cheating, which is in favor of the first guy. I
    would suggest you get 3 guys who all have the same features – slim and
    sharp features to actually come up with a definitive conclusion. This
    whole test is just off to me and can been seen as mere entertainment than
    any real study. However, because the test was done in England with English
    people as the variables, the test may therefore be sufficient to the
    English.

    But I will say that it’s sad that it usually seems to be the prettiest girl
    who is into the sleazy guys. It’s a shame. However, I do think that she
    was only “interested” in the sleazy guy just because he said he is a
    producer and writer for tv and film, whose work causes him to travel
    especially to the US. Look at her facial expression at 7:49 when he tells
    her this. In other words, she could be a gold digger. Therefore, it would
    make sense why some guys, who are looking for a committed relationship with
    the goal to be married, tend to stay away from a very pretty woman, because
    it is the very pretty woman who has been unfortunately stereotyped as being
    a gold digger; and not necessarily because the guy is shy or nervous. A
    man’s past experiences (dating women and not sex) with such women could
    also come into play as well. 

  16. i would choose the asian girl for sex, and the two blonds would perfecta
    for the good old blow jobs as they look more experienced

  17. This teaches nothing. Useless. I take their use of the word “science” as an
    affront.

    I tire of useless advice when all I want to know is how it actually works.
    And if being myself isn’t good enough for a female after all the crap I’ve
    put myself through to fit the list of general things women, want, screw it.
    I’d rather be alone then in an unauthentic relationship.

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