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A girl Minna just asked me out on a date – I feel like it might be a good
opportunity to get back up on my feet again – how should one behave on the
first date?
Then when Arul, which is the Indian lady, is told it was all a test, her
reply now is that she feels cheated and manipulated by the sleazy guy, and
then uses hindsight (which is 20/20 as they say) to compliment the first
guy. This tells me that she has very little life experience and may have
been sheltered by her family. Thank God it was just a test, because had it
been the real thing, she could have been just another female to have been
used by the sleazy type of guy just for her body, thus possibly altering
her mindset and outlook on life in the negative; worse, the guy could have
ended up being a criminal and she abused by him as a result.
Then she says “you want them to be themselves anyway” with the other 2
women agreeing. If that is the case why did Katherine and Arul herself,
after realizing it was a test, choose the first guy who was using body
language to get the women? He was not being himself but merely using a
tool to get the girl. Which means he does not actually and neither
naturally behave in such a manner. Therefore, if this was real,
his intentions can come into question and he be seen as not
trustworthy. The only woman that actually made sense was Sarah, the woman
who picked guy number 2, which is the guy who was being himself. This
leads me to believe, after deducing these factors, that being yourself it
the most sensible thing to be when talking to women. If you are a
gentlemen, and a woman still rejects, it is probably a benefit to you as
she may be the wrong type of woman anyway who is into the wrong type of
guy.
I think I’ve figured out the way to be to get a cute girl. I have to force
myself to not give a fuck!! That is the key. If you truly don’t give a fuck
no matter how hot the girl is, she will find you attractive. You have to
feel it deep down though. The other thing is not to be too honest and not
answer all of her “weeding out” questions. Fuck her, don’t get weeded out.
Women are generally mean spirited bitches and it gets worse as they get
older, so you have to match that bitchiness by not giving a fuck and moving
on if she turns you down, but she will pick up that “you don’t give a fuck”
attitude so you will get turned down a lot less.
By they way, I think the law of attraction is at work; the girl that liked
the average nice guy is probably a nice person. The girl that liked the
sleazy douchebag is probably a bi…
I actually think it also depends on the culture. If this was in America,
the last guy would have won just like the nice guy would finish last.
That’s how shallow and dumb American bitches are
I can tell that dating C is definetly out of the game cuz he is trying to
work too hard. I say just be yourself and act confident no matter if u run
out of things to say :)
Advice to Men: If you’re dating a single mother, and you have no kids of
your own, you’re a fucking sucker. Unless she’s supporting you financially
WHILST treating you well, there’s no reason to be dating a single mother.
I go to these dating websites and I see single mothers looking to date men.
So you had your sexual fun with another guy, gave him oral, provided him
with doggy style so he can pop one in your womb, now all of a sudden you
want to be with and settle down with a guy like me?
Where the hell were you when your body was perfect and tight? Where were
you when you didn’t have stretch marks? Where were you when your pussy
wasn’t stretched out? Where were you when you had your youth? You let
another guy have fun with you and your body and now you want to settle down
with me and give me the fucking leftovers? No fucking way in hell.
Men are not the problem, women are… now I know that makes women mad, and
the supposed real men mad, but a true real man does not want or need to be
the way we used to be along time ago in order to attract women, we want and
need to be more intelligent, eco-friendly, loving, caring and solve the
world’s problems, we don’t want to play games all day long to attract a
woman’s attention and keep it. Women need to understand that, or they will
continue to hurt men the way they have been for so long, and be unhappy
themselves. And I know that women find it difficult to be attracted to a
more evolved male species, and they are taught attraction is not a choice,
and they may even say that they really don’t know what qualities attract
them to a man… so what this means is they need reprogram their thinking
so that they’re attracted to a more evolved male species, because then they
will have real happiness, love, excitement, and at the same time they’re
also doing what’s best for the environment. :~) <3
As usual, black people “diversifying” an already diverse white society with
its variation in hair, eye and skin tones. I feel sorry for ginger people
watching this and seeing their racial identity excluded in the name of
black “diversity”. Other than that, the program was interesting.
Come on, what the hell. This is called science of attraction, but none of
the experiment protocols are used. It would be infinitely more interesting
if it was an actual experiment with a more decent sample, some analysis of
variance and then show us just the highlights of the experiment, with a
link to the full research.
This video has no more value than an article from Cosmopolitan.
Here are my questions…This was done in England. Doesn’t the differences
among cultures (ethnically wise) somewhat change the dynamics of such
“rules of attraction”? In other words, what works for men in England may
not necessarily work for men in the United States. If you study
anthropology you will see that what means one thing in one culture may mean
something entirely different in another.
Second question, which is more so a comment. I would think that the first
guy has the looks that most women like. The dude is slim, and has sharp
features. The second guy is a bit overweight, while the third guy also
looks less in shape and has what some would refer to as a pudgy face. In
other words, it seems like cheating, which is in favor of the first guy. I
would suggest you get 3 guys who all have the same features – slim and
sharp features to actually come up with a definitive conclusion. This
whole test is just off to me and can been seen as mere entertainment than
any real study. However, because the test was done in England with English
people as the variables, the test may therefore be sufficient to the
English.
But I will say that it’s sad that it usually seems to be the prettiest girl
who is into the sleazy guys. It’s a shame. However, I do think that she
was only “interested” in the sleazy guy just because he said he is a
producer and writer for tv and film, whose work causes him to travel
especially to the US. Look at her facial expression at 7:49 when he tells
her this. In other words, she could be a gold digger. Therefore, it would
make sense why some guys, who are looking for a committed relationship with
the goal to be married, tend to stay away from a very pretty woman, because
it is the very pretty woman who has been unfortunately stereotyped as being
a gold digger; and not necessarily because the guy is shy or nervous. A
man’s past experiences (dating women and not sex) with such women could
also come into play as well.
This teaches nothing. Useless. I take their use of the word “science” as an
affront.
I tire of useless advice when all I want to know is how it actually works.
And if being myself isn’t good enough for a female after all the crap I’ve
put myself through to fit the list of general things women, want, screw it.
I’d rather be alone then in an unauthentic relationship.
A girl Minna just asked me out on a date – I feel like it might be a good
opportunity to get back up on my feet again – how should one behave on the
first date?
I say, “fuck confidence!” I rather just be my stupid self than to
constantly struggle to prove my worth to someone.
Then when Arul, which is the Indian lady, is told it was all a test, her
reply now is that she feels cheated and manipulated by the sleazy guy, and
then uses hindsight (which is 20/20 as they say) to compliment the first
guy. This tells me that she has very little life experience and may have
been sheltered by her family. Thank God it was just a test, because had it
been the real thing, she could have been just another female to have been
used by the sleazy type of guy just for her body, thus possibly altering
her mindset and outlook on life in the negative; worse, the guy could have
ended up being a criminal and she abused by him as a result.
Then she says “you want them to be themselves anyway” with the other 2
women agreeing. If that is the case why did Katherine and Arul herself,
after realizing it was a test, choose the first guy who was using body
language to get the women? He was not being himself but merely using a
tool to get the girl. Which means he does not actually and neither
naturally behave in such a manner. Therefore, if this was real,
his intentions can come into question and he be seen as not
trustworthy. The only woman that actually made sense was Sarah, the woman
who picked guy number 2, which is the guy who was being himself. This
leads me to believe, after deducing these factors, that being yourself it
the most sensible thing to be when talking to women. If you are a
gentlemen, and a woman still rejects, it is probably a benefit to you as
she may be the wrong type of woman anyway who is into the wrong type of
guy.
Charlie????
Although some attraction is indeed natural. Having confidence, personality,
and charisma can win over many women. At least that’s what I talk about
Bad video. Not really science is it.
God English girls are so ugly.
science of attraction: dont be ugly
Wow! You should watch ” WTF Bending A Mans Brain ” . Such a good short
movie!
I think I’ve figured out the way to be to get a cute girl. I have to force
myself to not give a fuck!! That is the key. If you truly don’t give a fuck
no matter how hot the girl is, she will find you attractive. You have to
feel it deep down though. The other thing is not to be too honest and not
answer all of her “weeding out” questions. Fuck her, don’t get weeded out.
Women are generally mean spirited bitches and it gets worse as they get
older, so you have to match that bitchiness by not giving a fuck and moving
on if she turns you down, but she will pick up that “you don’t give a fuck”
attitude so you will get turned down a lot less.
Now put a stack of cash beside one guy and then lets see who the girls
chose
I would go with the average nice guy (no homo).
Would husband (no homo).
By they way, I think the law of attraction is at work; the girl that liked
the average nice guy is probably a nice person. The girl that liked the
sleazy douchebag is probably a bi…
I actually think it also depends on the culture. If this was in America,
the last guy would have won just like the nice guy would finish last.
That’s how shallow and dumb American bitches are
I can tell that dating C is definetly out of the game cuz he is trying to
work too hard. I say just be yourself and act confident no matter if u run
out of things to say :)
Advice to Men: If you’re dating a single mother, and you have no kids of
your own, you’re a fucking sucker. Unless she’s supporting you financially
WHILST treating you well, there’s no reason to be dating a single mother.
I go to these dating websites and I see single mothers looking to date men.
So you had your sexual fun with another guy, gave him oral, provided him
with doggy style so he can pop one in your womb, now all of a sudden you
want to be with and settle down with a guy like me?
Where the hell were you when your body was perfect and tight? Where were
you when you didn’t have stretch marks? Where were you when your pussy
wasn’t stretched out? Where were you when you had your youth? You let
another guy have fun with you and your body and now you want to settle down
with me and give me the fucking leftovers? No fucking way in hell.
Men are not the problem, women are… now I know that makes women mad, and
the supposed real men mad, but a true real man does not want or need to be
the way we used to be along time ago in order to attract women, we want and
need to be more intelligent, eco-friendly, loving, caring and solve the
world’s problems, we don’t want to play games all day long to attract a
woman’s attention and keep it. Women need to understand that, or they will
continue to hurt men the way they have been for so long, and be unhappy
themselves. And I know that women find it difficult to be attracted to a
more evolved male species, and they are taught attraction is not a choice,
and they may even say that they really don’t know what qualities attract
them to a man… so what this means is they need reprogram their thinking
so that they’re attracted to a more evolved male species, because then they
will have real happiness, love, excitement, and at the same time they’re
also doing what’s best for the environment. :~) <3
I knew confidence had nothing to do with it and it required some type of
special dating skills to get women.
All 6 of them seem to be actors
Its called $.
As usual, black people “diversifying” an already diverse white society with
its variation in hair, eye and skin tones. I feel sorry for ginger people
watching this and seeing their racial identity excluded in the name of
black “diversity”. Other than that, the program was interesting.
Come on, what the hell. This is called science of attraction, but none of
the experiment protocols are used. It would be infinitely more interesting
if it was an actual experiment with a more decent sample, some analysis of
variance and then show us just the highlights of the experiment, with a
link to the full research.
This video has no more value than an article from Cosmopolitan.
8:43 It doesn’t matter what those two chose, Mr. C won out completely when
that woman chose him, the other two bitches were completely unattractive.
The “sleazy over confident” guy cracks me up, he’s hilarious.
Here are my questions…This was done in England. Doesn’t the differences
among cultures (ethnically wise) somewhat change the dynamics of such
“rules of attraction”? In other words, what works for men in England may
not necessarily work for men in the United States. If you study
anthropology you will see that what means one thing in one culture may mean
something entirely different in another.
Second question, which is more so a comment. I would think that the first
guy has the looks that most women like. The dude is slim, and has sharp
features. The second guy is a bit overweight, while the third guy also
looks less in shape and has what some would refer to as a pudgy face. In
other words, it seems like cheating, which is in favor of the first guy. I
would suggest you get 3 guys who all have the same features – slim and
sharp features to actually come up with a definitive conclusion. This
whole test is just off to me and can been seen as mere entertainment than
any real study. However, because the test was done in England with English
people as the variables, the test may therefore be sufficient to the
English.
But I will say that it’s sad that it usually seems to be the prettiest girl
who is into the sleazy guys. It’s a shame. However, I do think that she
was only “interested” in the sleazy guy just because he said he is a
producer and writer for tv and film, whose work causes him to travel
especially to the US. Look at her facial expression at 7:49 when he tells
her this. In other words, she could be a gold digger. Therefore, it would
make sense why some guys, who are looking for a committed relationship with
the goal to be married, tend to stay away from a very pretty woman, because
it is the very pretty woman who has been unfortunately stereotyped as being
a gold digger; and not necessarily because the guy is shy or nervous. A
man’s past experiences (dating women and not sex) with such women could
also come into play as well.
i would choose the asian girl for sex, and the two blonds would perfecta
for the good old blow jobs as they look more experienced
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Is that the x mansion? Lmao
This teaches nothing. Useless. I take their use of the word “science” as an
affront.
I tire of useless advice when all I want to know is how it actually works.
And if being myself isn’t good enough for a female after all the crap I’ve
put myself through to fit the list of general things women, want, screw it.
I’d rather be alone then in an unauthentic relationship.